As you struggle to love yourself – here are some things you need to hear as you try to endure this difficult journey. For all of you women out there that never feel like you’re enough, like you’re too this and too that, as though you will never find your soulmate, and so on and so forth- we get it. We really do.

We’ve all been there, whether you believe it or not. We’re always looking for something to come save us, to validate us and make us feel like we’re good enough. You need to start being the driver of your own life – because giving someone the keys to you car and being a backseat passenger won’t really get you to where you deserve to be.

Self-love is something that we all need to work on, every day. It won’t happen overnight. It’s a process that you learn how to perfect as you go, from the mistakes that you make on the way. Stop letting everything pull you in so many different directions, and allow yourself to focus on yourself, and what truly makes you happy. 

Whenever you are feeling in doubt about your worth – always remind yourself how amazing and beautiful you truly are. Whatever challenges you may be facing right now will pass eventually. Take a deep breath, and know that this is just the beginning of your journey. Where you are right now will not define the rest of your life. 

Everything in your past has helped you to become the incredible person that you are today, and has built you up to be strong and confident. Look into the mirror, look at everything that you are, and love everything that you are.