In some cases, the answer is pretty clear cut or we make up all kinds of assumptions and guesses. We stalk their Facebook and Instagram to try to find some clues, and take everything as a sign. Perhaps you even see on social media that they now have someone else already. Maybe that was even the reason they aren’t with you anymore.

It hurts. It burns. But hopefully, this will give you exactly what you need to start carrying on with your life, and understanding that it was for the best. They were nothing but a big waste of your precious, precious time.

This however, is not the case if someone randomly decides to ghost you after you’ve been talking on a regular basis. If someone blocks you out of the blue, with no reason, then no, you will not get that same kind of closure that can help you start to move on. And it sucks.

By them blocking you, they shut out the option of ever really knowing what went on. You can’t stalk them, you can’t ask them, you can’t do anything. And it makes total sense to be upset about this. They really could have been more mature about and talked to you about it instead of just taking the easy way out and running away.