Don’t you just love, love? We all do. Everyone wants to find the love of their lives and ride off into the sunset and live happily ever after. But with that said, are you ready for what comes with being in a relationship? You see, relationships aren’t really what the fairytales tell us. Being in a relationship comes with its challenges. But don’t get us wrong, being in a relationship can be a magical thing. After all, those butterflies you feel are real. With that said, you may have a few questions about your relationship and you have come to the right place.

You may already know this but when you are in a relationship, you don’t really think about yourself. That’s right, when you are in a relationship, you tend to put the needs and wants of your partner before your own. Now, this isn’t crazy, in fact, it is normal. This is simply how you know you love your person. But that doesn’t mean that everything will be sunshine and rainbows. Relationships come with ups and downs which can lead to a number of different things. One of which is stress. Yes, we know you tend to stress about your relationship from time to time.

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Don’t worry, this is completely normal. People may not talk about it but it happens. Everyone stresses over their relationships, they simply don’t make it public. With that said, stressing over your relationship is normal but that doesn’t mean that it is healthy. You see there is healthy stress and unhealthy stress. Now you may be wondering how to identify the two and the fact is only you can tell the difference. This is because you are the one in the relationship, yes people can give you advice but the end decision is ultimately yours to make.