Ive come across a wide variety of personalities – assholes, nerds, combinations. There was something about each one that I like, perhaps because my hormones took over, or I just felt like I really didn’t have too many other options.
It’s safe to say that I’ve learned my lesson the hard way, and it’s real ugly out there. So please, protect yourself – and never, ever date a guy who would even consider calling you fat.
Never date a guy who would make you feel bad about yourself when it comes to anything in your life. It’s completely and totally non-negotiable, because when it comes to your self-esteem and ego, there’s a whole lot at stake.
Don’t learn the hard way like I did. He made me feel terrible about my body, my choices, my personality, and my looks. I might be heavier than most girls out there, but I am most certainly not overweight.
He made me feel so bad to the point where I couldn’t look at myself in the mirror. He had me magnify all of my flaws a billion times, and that I wasn’t good enough to be with anyone. He broke my heart, and every time I tried to call it quits, he always managed to have me running back to him.
There were good times together too, of course. That’s why it was so hard to leave him. But when someone you care about so much makes you feel so bad about yourself, you have to know where to draw the line.
You deserve someone that fully accepts everything that you are, through all of your imperfections. Never accept anything less.