If a man isn’t ready to commit, then no matter what, even if you bring him all the women in the world, he still will not be able to commit.  And at the same time, if a man truly loves you, cares about you, values you ,and doesn’t want to lose you, he will do everything in his power to keep you.

It can be hard to find a medium between these two truths.  We always want more.  We can have deep and intimate conversation’s, strong connections, but then again, can’t we have that with anyone?  Perhaps that’s just being friends? We never want to give up on relationships. We’re all tired of being alone and of failed relationships, and with having to start all over again.

We are always fighting to make things work. But at a certain point we need to release that we’re just fighting ourselves. Sometimes, what we think we want, isn’t what we really want.

All we ever wanted is to be loved more, and more understand. These two truths will always come out, either they can’t commit, or they will do anything to keep us.  Allow these kinds of people that let us down that no matter what, we can’t change people.