So you’re worried that you will never find the one? Your soulmate, the one that was born to be with you?  Just stop for a second, and try to imagine this…

You peer into a fortune ball right now, and you see that you in fact, just as worried your entire life – will never find the one. Yes, that’s right.

It’s a sad thing, especially since you’ve been hoping and waiting for so long. You’ve wanted someone to cuddle up with, to share all your thoughts with, to take care of you when you’re sick. It’s a part of human nature.

So if you knew, that 100000 percent, you would never find the love of your life, would you act differently? Would you change the way in which you live your life?  Would you still have bought those new jeans? Would you still have gone to that party two weeks ago?

Your first instinct would probably be to convince yourself that surely you wouldn’t change anything in your life, because you are strong and independent, and do things for yourself, right?  But would this really be the case?

Perhaps you would focus more on your career, or invest more time in yourself, take some more holidays? Would you maybe invest more in your other relationships?  It seems as though most us would feel really differently towards life if we knew that there was no hope in our love lives.

Love holds us back in so many ways that we don’t even realize.  So how about stopping to waiting around for someone else to show up and magically change our lives? Been the person you want to be, and the one will come when you live your life and make yourself your own love.