Every time you see a couple, you just can’t help it. You feel happy for them, but at the same time you’re super jealous. How could you not be? You’ve been looking for your special someone since the day you were born.
Of course you’re happy on your own, but if you could have anything, you surely would want to spend it with the ‘one’ and grow old together. After so many heartbreaks though, it makes sense that you would start to loose hope. Your completely torn between giving up or to keep on waiting for him.
But have you ever thought about the fact that someone out there, in this universe is out there waiting for you too? To him, you are his ‘one’. He’s also struggling to find you and is lonely without you. He also probably wanted to give up already so many times. But he knows that you are out there, waiting for him too. So he’s still trying. He still goes on dates and makes the effort, with the hope that he will one day, when the time is right, find you.
So please, don’t give up. Life is so boring without hope. So what if you get hurt again? It’s a part of the beautiful journey of finding love. Just live your life, do the things that bring you up, and every date that doesn’t work out, take it as a step closer to finding the one.
It’s a completely freeing feeling to understand that life does have a plan for you, always. Let it go and enjoy the journey. You will find each other.